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		<title>birthday indulgence</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Mar 2010 22:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I want a cream-filled red velvet cupcake with cream cheese frosting. Sprinkles.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=havyourcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=11553609&amp;post=531&amp;subd=havyourcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>I want a cream-filled red velvet cupcake with cream cheese frosting. <a href="http://sprinkles.com/index.html">Sprinkles</a>.</p>
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		<title>I love my little neighborhood</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Mar 2010 22:13:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have a Whole Foods, Trader Joe&#8217;s, &#38; Robek&#8217;s Juice within a block. Not too much farther, there is the hugest flight of stairs that goes up the side of the hill (my legs have never been in better shape) &#38; Mrs. Winston&#8217;s. If you were here I would take you on a walk and [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=havyourcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=11553609&amp;post=530&amp;subd=havyourcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>I have a Whole Foods, Trader Joe&#8217;s, &amp; Robek&#8217;s Juice within a block. Not too much farther, there is the hugest flight of stairs that goes up the side of the hill (my legs have never been in better shape) &amp; Mrs. Winston&#8217;s. If you were here I would take you on a walk and we&#8217;d get a blueberry-bran muffin <a href="http://www.wholefoodsmarket.com/">here</a> or an acai-bowl <a href="http://robeks.com/">here</a> or an anything-you-can-dream-of salad <a href="http://www.yelp.com/biz/mrs-winstons-green-grocery-santa-monica">here</a>.</p>
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		<title>flashing before my eyes</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Mar 2010 17:17:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have only days until my 25th birthday. Besides birthday pastries and shopping, I&#8217;ve been thinking about how I&#8217;m coming to the end &#38; beginning of a phase. So I&#8217;ve started thinking of what I want to do in my next phase. And what I want to have accomplished by the time I reach that [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=havyourcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=11553609&amp;post=529&amp;subd=havyourcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>I have only days until my 25th birthday. Besides birthday pastries and shopping, I&#8217;ve been thinking about how I&#8217;m coming to the end &amp; beginning of a phase. So I&#8217;ve started thinking of what I want to do in my next phase. And what I want to have accomplished by the time I reach that next big birthday&#8230; 30, gulp. [in no particular order]</p>
<p>1] get some 10k runs under my belt<br />2] learn to be cooler &amp; calmer &amp; sweeter<br />3] have a baby + maybe another on the way<br />4] get some good yoga &amp; Pilates workshops under my belt<br />5] buy a reformer<br />6] get better at taking pictures of my life that is flashing before my eyes<br />7] somehow avoid crow&#8217;s feet naturally<br />8] learn to love my body at every age<br />9] make my hubs feel like a million bucks<br />10] learn a few more cooking skills besides trial &amp; error</p>
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		<title>ask me!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Mar 2010 06:49:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jenredford</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m now on formspring. Ask me anything here.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=havyourcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=11553609&amp;post=528&amp;subd=havyourcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>I&#8217;m now on <a href="http://www.formspring.me/">formspring</a>. Ask me anything <a href="http://www.formspring.me/havyoucake">here</a>.</p>
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		<title>I dare you</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Mar 2010 18:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[to squeeze in 5 or 10 extra minutes of cardio this week.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=havyourcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=11553609&amp;post=517&amp;subd=havyourcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-large;">to squeeze in 5 or 10 extra minutes of cardio this week.</span></p>
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		<title>living better: losing the shoulds</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Mar 2010 18:27:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It’s the one word that can make me feel bad about myself in every area in my life. It’s the one word that can make me worry about things I don’t really care about. And it’s the one word that can make me lose my vision of what I really want. “I should be skinnier” [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=havyourcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=11553609&amp;post=516&amp;subd=havyourcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Georgia, serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#999999;">It’s the one word that can make me feel bad about myself in every area in my life. It’s the one word that can make me worry about things I don’t really care about. And it’s the one word that can make me lose my vision of what I really want. “I should be skinnier” “I shouldn’t enjoy food as much as I do”&nbsp;&nbsp;“I should be X, Y, &amp; Z”.&nbsp;</span></span></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal"><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-family:Georgia, serif;line-height:115%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#999999;">It&#8217;s not about never doing anything hard or never reaching goals. It&#8217;s about where you&#8217;re motivation comes from.&nbsp;</span><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#999999;">Having this type of external focus too easily leads us to spend our</span></i></span></span><span class="apple-converted-space"><i><span style="font-family:Georgia, serif;line-height:115%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#999999;">&nbsp;</span></span></i></span><span class="apple-style-span"><i><u><span style="font-family:Georgia, serif;line-height:115%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#999999;">daily</span></span></u></i></span><span class="apple-converted-space"><i><span style="font-family:Georgia, serif;line-height:115%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#999999;">&nbsp;</span></span></i></span><span class="apple-style-span"><i><span style="font-family:Georgia, serif;line-height:115%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#999999;">lives doing things based on what we think we “should” do</span></span></i></span><span class="apple-converted-space"><i><span style="font-family:Georgia, serif;line-height:115%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#999999;">&nbsp;</span></span></i></span><span class="apple-style-span"><i><span style="font-family:Georgia, serif;line-height:115%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#999999;">rather than what we “want”, “need” or mindfully decide to do.</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#999999;">&nbsp;</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#666666;">-</span></i></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#666666;"><i></i></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-family:Georgia, serif;line-height:115%;"><a href="http://www.more.com/2024/11115-saying--i-should--abdicates-personal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#666666;">More</span></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#999999;">.</span></span></span></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal"><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="font-family:Georgia, serif;line-height:115%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#999999;">I’m losing my </span><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#999999;">I shoulds</span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#999999;"> and replacing them with </span><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#999999;">I wants</span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#999999;">. I want to be fit &amp; healthy. I want to enjoy life. I want to stop comparing myself to others &amp; their metabolisms. I want to do things that make me happy. Read more about shoulds <a href="http://www.more.com/2024/11115-saying--i-should--abdicates-personal">here</a>.</span></span></span></div>
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		<title>run run run</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Mar 2010 18:06:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Whether you&#8217;re a runner or not, this just might be fun. Here. Fitness &#38; More. Find a half marathon here.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=havyourcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=11553609&amp;post=515&amp;subd=havyourcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<div class="separator" style="clear:both;text-align:left;">Whether you&#8217;re a runner or not, this just might be fun. <a href="https://secure.fitnessmagazine.com/common/profile/quicksignupNewUser.jsp?regSource=7668&amp;_requestid=208669">Here</a>. <a href="http://fitnessmagazine.com/">Fitness</a> &amp; <a href="http://more.com/">More</a>. Find a half marathon <a href="http://search.active.com/search?k=half+marathon&amp;m=meta:startDate:daterange:today..&amp;f=activities&amp;l=everywhere">here</a>.</div>
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		<title>thanks for the award!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Mar 2010 05:59:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks&#160;Katie!&#160;I&#8217;m always grateful when someone says something nice! There are so many great blogs out there!<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=havyourcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=11553609&amp;post=514&amp;subd=havyourcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks&nbsp;<a href="http://favoritesandthings.blogspot.com/">Katie</a>!&nbsp;I&#8217;m always grateful when someone says something nice! There are so many great blogs out there!</p>
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		<title>rule #55</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Mar 2010 17:57:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Learn the difference between feeling stuffed &#38; feeling satisfied.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=havyourcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=11553609&amp;post=513&amp;subd=havyourcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-large;">Learn the difference between feeling stuffed &amp; feeling satisfied.</span></p>
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		<title>taste this tuesday: pesto salad with chicken, tomatoes, &amp; mozzarella</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Mar 2010 17:49:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I die for fresh mozzarella. This salad was made for me. Here. Self.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=havyourcake.wordpress.com&amp;blog=11553609&amp;post=512&amp;subd=havyourcake&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>I die for fresh mozzarella. This salad was made for me. <a href="http://www.self.com/fooddiet/recipes/2010/03/pesto-salad-with-chicken-tomatoes-and-mozzarella">Here</a>. <a href="http://self.com/">Self</a>.</p>
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